“When are you free for coffee?” Long lost friend or a scammer trying to get you to respond? (2024)

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Killian Yates

August 05, 2024

I usually like the consumer alerts from the FTC but this doesn't seem like a scam report to me. It seems more like an attempt to push out an article and a potential hypothetical text message contact scam that hasn't actually happened to anyone.

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Kelly Founts

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

I get these texts often. I appreciated the info. I do usually respond with wrong number etc. but now I'm more informed.

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Mike

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Are you kidding? I get the 'coffee' emails all the time. I let one go for a bit just to see what the scam was. They are trying to get information. But if you stay on long enough, they will try one of a couple of scams. (Either trying get you to click on a link or asking for money.) There is nothing hypothetical here. These are real. Thank your good luck you haven't received one yet.
I get them in SMS, Telegram, Messaging and Whatsapp. I always report and block them.

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Veronica

August 06, 2024

In reply to Are you kidding? I get the … by Mike

How strange 😧, last month I started getting those too and I am so glad I decided to read all of this information.
I was wondering how to deal with it, so I came to this sight for help!! I even got mail too. It's starting to bug me because Iam getting them more and more. I'm confused alittle because, I want it to stop . And I want to be able to do things legally, and wonder if I can sue the company for this? I don't have any money for a lawyer but wish I could make the company stop. I read they were in a class action suit before and they had to pay out. So why are they still pursuing people in the same way?

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Nancy Mott I f…

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

I found the article full of useful information. It confirmed my policy to avoid answering unknown phone call. (They can always leave a message.)

Forwarding to Spam excellent.

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modelapic

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Apparently Killian is not receiving any nuisance texts yet, as mentioned in the FTC notice.
I get hundreds, and have to block any sender info that appears to be connected.
The names used are bogus, and the phone numbers computer generated to register any reply hits.
This is a valid warning announcement from FTC, even though it is at least a year late being published....

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Ryan Murphy

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Hi Killian,

This is a really common scam. Criminals usually get your phone number from data breaches, so these aren't random texts. They're targeted at you, trying anything to get you to engage. We know from research that the most effective way to prevent being the victim of a scam is to never engage in the first place. The criminals also know this, and work really hard to just try and get some level of response from folks. A response also tells them they are texting an active phone number, and they will continue to try and get you to communicate with them.

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Joanna Behrens

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

I did receive a text message like this - only it wanted me to come over for dinner. It was from a 786 number which is in Florida (2000 miles from where I live) and did not include a name or any other information. I wisely deleted it. I think the FTC knows what it is doing.

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Terrance Oglesby

August 06, 2024

In reply to I did receive a text message… by Joanna Behrens

I have received messages from a dating site that I have no longer utilized since late last year I kept deleting them out that's one source to keep your name and info intact.

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ds

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

I did have this happen to me. Long lost friend on facebook messenger just saying hello after a long time and then they hit me with a bunch of pitches about Government money being available. She had been hacked.

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Margaret S

August 06, 2024

In reply to I did have this happen to me… by ds

Also, on Facebook, do not accept friend requests, even if it’s someone already on your friends list. These deplorable scammers are now cloning accounts. It pays to stay aware. Have a good day.

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Virginia C. Lopez

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Thank you for this article. My husband and I are constantly getting these text messages from unknown numbers and I have been reporting them to my provider. They ask questions too, like "Is this so and so? Do not respond yes or no. I think they may somehow take your response like they do on calls and manipulate it to somehow make it seem like it was you.

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Gregory

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

This happened to me last night, only it wasn't a "coffee date", but a "We went to the same school together. Sorry I've been out of touch. Want to talk?"

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June

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Actually I’ve gotten this phishing txt and other’s like it many many times. So, yes, it happens and it’s a legit scam. They’re trying to engage.

Sometimes it’s a simple “hi - how are you?” or it’s “hello - I’ve been thinking of you.”

Easy to fall for and respond “who is this?”

Lately I’m getting the so called recruiter, job txts. It never ends. Delete/block/don’t respond even if it’s me wanting to swear at them.

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Liz

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Actually, I get these all the time. When they come in, I don't respond. I add it to my blocklist.

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Roger Timpson

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Killian, I agree that this isn't much of a scam report - more of a general warning to not engage with unknown people trying to contact you. However, in regard to this scam "actually happening", I have personally received this exact text and many of my banking clients have reported similar. Bizarre that you would assume it's not real..?

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Mary Schultz

August 05, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Not true. Scammers do this - it’s a very real thing and this message from the FTC is helpful. Just an example of some of the messages I’ve received:

“Hey, long time no see. How are you?”
“Is this Julie’s number?”
“Hi John. I heard you moved to Michigan.” That’s the first one I ever got and I responded, “You have the wrong person.” At which point he responded with a friendly remark. Eventually he started with the scamming. I don’t remember if it was for crypto. A lot of people, women especially, have fallen for romance scams where the guy pretends to message the wrong person, starts with friendly comments, soon starts with the “I love you, I’d like to meet in person” schtick. Usually the guy is on an oil rig, a doctor in a foreign country or someone in the army. Next they start asking for money in the form of gift cards or bitcoin, two things that can’t be traced, because they have had some financial issue and need their victim to send them money so they can come visit. Of course, they never show up. They have multiple accounts stolen from other people.

To make a long story short, this happens all the time. Thanks to the FTC for getting out the word on these and other scams.

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KD

August 06, 2024

In reply to I usually like the consumer… by Killian Yates

Kinda funny you say that it hasn’t happened to anyone. My number is on the dark web and I get so many of these types of text.

Its real and happening to me. I block the number ASAP

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EA

August 05, 2024

I've received scam text messages much like the one the FTC is outlining for everyone. These fishing attempts are unfortunately, very very real.

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Margaret Clark

August 05, 2024

Thank you for being vigilant in looking after the public interest. I appreciate your messages very much.

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AL HARTMAN

August 05, 2024

Thank you!

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M.MILLS

August 05, 2024

Something similar happened to me. Fortunately, I stopped and thought about it a minute and realized--since I didn't know the number of the sender--it was likely a scam. I deleted and blocked the number.
Thanks for the reminder to stop and think a moment before automatically responding to any text that shows up.

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Ingrid Pope

August 05, 2024

I did receive the message to invite for coffee, I send to scam. Thanks for the info and scams that are out there. The IT world is not safe. Cost money but not safe.

Thanks for the alert.

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Geneva

August 06, 2024

Uhhh yes..this scam has been going on for awhile. I get them but usually thy are diverted to spam. I never answer. But there have been those trapped by this seemingly innocuous message and it didn't end well in most cases.

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David Galpin

August 06, 2024

I know it's a scam. I never respond; just delete it then BLOCK that number.

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Connie

August 06, 2024

Have received some of these my self.

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Ty

August 06, 2024

Thanks for the concern

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Valerie Stanford

August 06, 2024

Got one of these and it even included my name, said it was my niece wanting to get together, but the number was not my nieces so I called her, and she did not send it. I am still clueless not only how they got my name, but the nick name my niece uses for me. I did select the delete and report feature, but will be using the SPAM report option going forward as well.

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Jody Sellers

August 06, 2024

I have been scammed by a company worldwide express Company saying I have a package from Afghanistan $171,000 I spent trying to clear it up. A military love Scam

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Don

August 06, 2024

I do not say Hello. Hello switches their phone on. I wait about six seconds and say, bon jour. the line goes dead. If it is a legitimate call they will say something. Other times I say guten tag. That works. I have used Bitte Sie Nacht den ton sprachen.
One outfit switched me to a "lawyer" to talk about getting compensation for an accident. I replied, Oh yes, the deer I hit ran into the woods. I don't have insurance and I doubt that the deer does either. He hung up and I haven't got any more calls from them.

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Viktor vonM

August 06, 2024

Great advice. Getting so many scam/fraud texts and emails that I am vary of emails from my banks! I use an alternate contact number to my financial institution. It's insane with messages coming what seems a local number, then actually can be from anywhere in the world.

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Heidi Manti

August 06, 2024

I always find your information useful. As consumers we always need to be vigilant with our information.

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Van

August 06, 2024

This FTC alert is very timely. I received a text yesterday asking if I was free to do lunch.

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Joyce

August 06, 2024

If I don't know that person I don't respond.

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charles

August 06, 2024

yes this is real. I got an email telling me my costco membership had expired and costco would renew it for free if I wanted to respond. I was expecting a renewal notice from costco and responded. Dumb dumb was me and my bank called about a charge which I didn't make and so locked account. another charge is pending along with the first charge. The Costco web page looked exacly like the one you get when you log into Costco. They copied it exactly. They target old people and I wonder how they knew my account with costco membership had expired..Costco must sell our info.

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Sanjuanita Salinas

August 06, 2024

I receive a message and been getting cal pretending to be the cable company and another Cals pretending to be from human resources department asking social security dob

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